Holidays and family occasions often mean hosting an older relative for a few days, perhaps someone who now uses a cane or walker, or who is a little less steady than last time. Homes that work perfectly for the people who live in them can be full of small obstacles for a visitor in unfamiliar surroundings, especially at night. A little preparation helps your guest feel welcome rather than a worry.
Ask before they arrive
A friendly phone call to ask what would help is better than guessing. Do they need a bed of a particular height, a chair with arms, help with stairs? Will they bring their own equipment? Some people are reluctant to ask for things, so specific questions work better than "Do you need anything?"
The guest room
- If stairs are difficult, consider setting up a room on the ground floor.
- Check that the bed is not too low to get up from easily.
- Put a lamp within reach of the bed and a night light between the bedroom and the bathroom.
- Clear a path wide enough for a walker and remove rugs that might catch a foot.
- Leave a chair with arms in the room for dressing.
The bathroom
This is where unfamiliar surroundings matter most. A non-slip mat in the bath or shower, a bath mat that does not slide, and toiletries within reach are easy. If your guest will need to hold on to something, remember that towel rails and soap dishes are not designed to take weight. A properly fitted grab bar is a permanent improvement; for a short stay, ask your guest what they usually use at home. See bathroom safety basics.
Around the house
Pets, toys, bags and shoes in the hall are the classic trip hazards during visits, when the household is busier than usual. Keep walkways clear, keep outside steps well lit, and show your guest where the light switches are on the first evening.
Getting out and about
If you plan outings, choose places with level paths, seating and toilets nearby. Our Bloomington venue pages include notes on visiting with a walking aid or wheelchair.
Most of all, let your guest set the pace. Rest is part of the visit, not an interruption to it.